If your married life is getting lackluster day by day due to lack of sexual desire, then you need some help, otherwise that day is not far when your relations will become uncomfortable with your partner, messing up your married life and eventually ending in divorce. You just need to bring that gusto and fire in your bedroom in order to save your relationship.
One of the best ways to bring back that excitement and romance in the bedroom is sex toys. They come in various varieties for men and women both. Adult toys are so pleasurable that all the silence vanishes between the partners and they start talking about romance and sex. If you are really interested in taking advantage of sex toys to spice up your love life, then first of all find out all the possible best ways to introduce them to your married life.
*Here are three imperative ways to introduce sex stimulating agents to marriage:*
• Start slowly- Don’t forget that your aim is to bring back the lost sexual desire, for this first of all you need to work on the base level. It is quite challenging to bring any external agent into your relationship. Start using some erotic oils and lotions, by doing this you will open the door for other external agents like sex toys to be added in your near future. In this way you are simply starting with simple things to introduce an external or third element into your relationship.
• The groundwork- Remember your ground work will set the building for further experiments via sex toys, hence it is very essential to go with the right foundation. What you are planning here is to launch a real sex toy into your relationship, which will help in making your relation joyous, full of romance, thrill and excitement. But it should be simple, gentle and sexy kind of toy. In short the sex toy should not be any kind of contraption or equipment, otherwise your partner will be sacred and whole idea of romance will be in bin. Hence the foundation should be something very simple and not a scary kind of big device.
• Avoid addiction or dependency – Don’t forget that you are not using sex toys for their addiction, they are just for time being in order to invigorate that slept fire inside you and your partner. If you will become addicted to it, that means you are not successful in your aim of bringing back the natural fire. As if the fire is back that means now you do not need anyone else and you two and a romantic environment is more than sufficient to enjoy.
Use the external thing to augment the relationship rather than serving just as a showpiece where every personal and intimate relation requires toys or an external agent to get pleasured.
In short *sex toys* act as a bridge between the partners to bring that fire which was never before.
Luxury adult toys are for any consumer that really wants their toys to last a long time and to be of the highest quality. Since luxury sex toy companies sell their products for a bit more than regular adult toys, most luxury toys are made of high-quality materials and are researched to make sure they provide the pleasure that is intended. They are a great step up from using common vibrators. If looking for a luxury sex toy, there are a couple large companies that a consumer should look at.
Dai-Do is a company that provides an aluminum alloy vibrator. It’s especially designed for p-spot and g-spot stimulation, so this is a toy for those users who would enjoy professionally-designed g-spot. Because it’s aluminum, it works amazingly well for temperature play. This is for the consumer who is looking for more out of their sex toy.
LELO is a Sweden company that provides luxury erotic materials for males and females. They sell a variety of luxury vibrator toys, and most of their toys come in pure medical-grade silicone. All of LELO’s vibrators are rechargeable and come with a warranty. LELO toys are for those buyers who would like their adult toys to, quite literally, last a lifetime.
Bijoux Indiscrets offers other sex toys for the sensual buyer in mind. The company offers sensual restraints and sensual options for sensory deprivation. They’re very luxurious toys, and a great option for anyone would love to add sensuality to their kinky sexy fun.
Jimmy Jane is another high-quality company that offers high-quality for those who are looking for an upgrade. The Little Chroma is a waterproof, aluminum vibrator that comes in amazing packaging and will last years in the future. It even includes the batteries you will need
Njoy is a company that makes a variety of stainless steel sex toys. The Njoy Pure Plugs are completely sterile anal toys that can be shared between products. Since the toys are made of stainless steel, they are great for temperature play. They can also be boiled for easy clean-up, and they last for years into the future.
Overall, luxury adult toys are the best choice for a regular user who wants to choose quality over quantity. Almost all luxury sex toys come with warranties, and all of the toys have undergone significant research to make sure that the product does exact what it intends to. With all of the choices in luxury sex toys, there’s no reason you shouldn’t try one.
When it comes to sex, there are no hard and fast rules on how to achieve the best mind blowing orgasms possible. You can actually be as kinky and creative as you possibly want in bed. Don’t be afraid to try new things to spice up your sex life, such as using sex toys from Hot G Vibe. However, you should take into consideration your partner’s willingness to venture on such an experience. Follow the tips below on how to introduce sex toys to your sex life.
The first thing you should keep in mind is to communicate your intention to your partner. Communication is key in maintaining a successful relationship, so you should always be frank to your partner. Tell your partner why you believe that the adult toys will enhance your sex life. A little persuasion might be required at first.
Use erotic oils and lotions as the first introduction. This is something simple and gentle but can improve your sex life and help you reach mind blowing orgasms. Think of it as the door that will open up your partner to other intimacy tools.
You should then choose the right adult toys. Some adult toys are made from dangerous plastic that can be potentially harmful in the long run. Adult sex toys from Hot G Vibe, on the other hand, are made from safe material. It will make your sex life more fun and exciting. You can start with simple ticklers and vibrators for your maiden sex toys adventure.
Remember to keep your adult toys journey fun, exciting and most of all — safe for both you and your partner.
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Knowing your unique needs and the needs of your sexual partner can be very enlightening. See if you can find a little bit or a lot of yourself in each of these characters – and I am sure you will recognize an ex or a present partner in one or many of these characters. This is not about accusations and excuses but rather the realities necessary to understand the developing self and current struggles. The important thing when looking at these sexual styles is not to try to figure out which sexual type you or someone is but rather to use this knowledge to improve your sexual relationships. Pay attention to how your own sexual style and behaviour makes your partner feel about themselves and the relationship because your sexual style may be hurting your relationships..
1. The Sexual Traffic Cop
Outside the bedroom: The Sexual Traffic Cop is what we would call a typical control freak. They often feel that they were put on this earth to “put others in their place” and feel obligated to tell others what is ‘right’ and what is “wrong”. They tend to think their views, their families, relationships or career are what everyone should emulate and do not hesitate flaunting them in public for everyone to copy. They are often critical and demanding, always giving orders and making up rules. They can be very picky, impatient and judgmental; constantly giving advice, correcting or “mothering” others.
Inside the bedroom: When you have sex with a Sexual Traffic Cop, you will get so many directions and instructions on what he/she likes and doesn’t like. They will tell you how you should feel and respond and they may demonstrate to you how they want you to do it to them and ask you to do exactly the way they do it. You make one “wrong” move and he/she just stops and refuses to continue. The worst part is that there are so many instructions that you never seem to remember what they like or don’t like. You feel pressured, controlled and inadequate every time.
2. The Sexual Beast
Outside the bedroom: The Sexual Beast usually talks loudly – and dirty. They are the sort of people who are all over the place and are either disillusioned that others really like them or do not care if they are liked or not. They have a strong need to dominate others and to be in charge of things. They may appear very controlled but are cynical and temperamental, and easily explode into anger when their authority or intelligence is challenged. They can be very vindictive and manipulative. They aren’t necessarily angry at the opposite sex it’s just that they confuse aggression and chaos with passion and spontaneity.
Inside the bedroom: When you have sex with a Sexual Beast, you are not sure whether you are being loved or devoured. His/her panting, grabbing, slapping, scratching, biting, pushing, pulling and bestial noises or “dirty talk” reduces the sex act to its very basic crude level. You are left frightened, distrustful, unsatisfied and angry but not sure why.
3. The Sexual Martyr
Outside the bedroom: The Sexual Martyr lives with a victim mentality. They are always telling “poor me” stories, blaming others for everything that has happened to them. They don’t believe they are lovable or worthwhile and find it difficult to express their needs or ask for what they want. They’ve never had satisfying experiences and feel used and taken advantage of all the time.
Inside the bedroom: When you have sex with a Sexual Martyr you sense that “something” in not right but however much you ask, he/she will never tell. The only way they try to let you know what is happening is when you try to be intimate their first reaction is to move away a little or just lie there motionless. You sort of start getting resentful because you can’t read his/her mind and you feel guilty for not being able to figure out what is really going on.
4. The Sexual Procrastinator
Outside the bedroom: The Sexual Procrastinator avoids doing things he/she needs to do or deal with and hates being told what to do. They ask for advice, make goals and promises but never actually get to carry them out. They are usually very rational and reasonable and take themselves seriously. They can be very talkative, impressionable, sensitive and warm but feel uncomfortable about getting close to other people and often avoid these situations.
Inside the bedroom: If you ever get to have sex with a Sexual Procrastinator consider yourself one of the most patient people on earth because by the time you get to actually have sex with this character, you’ll have heard all kinds of logical explanations as to how the mood, timing and the place is just not right. But even during sex, they will find little problems to interrupt or force you to stop. You are left feeling controlled, neglected, desperate and angry.
5. The Sexual Glutton
Outside the bedroom: The Sexual Glutton is a professional at enjoying him/herself. Sexual Gluttons have low tolerance to pain or suffering and are often prone to addictive behaviours. They usually seek out adult toys to play with and when they find something that gives them pleasure; food, alcohol, drugs etc. they get completely lost in sensation oblivious of the people and everything around them.
Inside the bedroom: When you have sex with a Sexual Glutton you get the feeling you are just a toy for their pleasure. If you try to change what you are doing to give them pleasure, they motion for you to keep going, paying no attention whatsoever to your feelings. While you feel “high and dry” he/she is in his/her pleasure world. You are left feeling left out, unimportant, unloved and angry at being used.
6. The Sexual Performer
Outside the bedroom: The Sexual Performer is wildly enthusiastic about everything. Everything and everyone is always fantastic, wonderful, amazing, fabulous, great, brilliant etc. When you meet this character you are almost sure he/she is the most passionate person you’ve ever met, yet you get a feeling that there is something not quite right about his/her passion – you’re probably right. Sexual Performers are people who want to get close to others, but tend to be so anxious about intimacy that they often scare others away.
Inside the bedroom: When you have sex with a Sexual Performer you get the feeling they are putting on a show; they make a lot of noise and they will do this and do that, frequently changing positions and telling you over and over how fabulous it is. They’ll even insist sex is better in front of a mirror because they want to watch themselves perform. Their “pleasure” seems so exaggerated that you are not sure whether it is sex or their performance that they like so much. You are left feeling used, mistrustful and even resentful.
7. The Sexual Idealist
Outside the bedroom: The Sexual Idealist is sensitive, powerful and very intelligent. They are usually spiritual and philosophical, and are passionate about the protection of the environment, cruelty against animals and world poverty. They desperately want fairness and goodness for everyone and in everything because their past experiences have been the opposite. They may be children of divorced or emotionally isolated and dissociated parents, were adopted or lived with parents who were kept busy working. Because they have been abandoned again and again they may be deluded that their work, relationships and life are perfect and are afraid to look at life honestly because they fear that their positive outlook may collapse.
Inside the bedroom: When you have sex with a Sexual Idealist be prepared to enjoy it not once but twice: first when you hear the great and wonderful benefits of sex and again after when you hear a recounting of the just concluded magical experience. He/she will tell you how sex with you is much better than all the ones he/she’s had all his/her life and what a wonderful lover you are. You find yourself pressured to perform to similar or higher standards, just to keep up. But their “ideal” world leaves you feeling inadequate, not loved for yourself and mistrustful of their claims.
8. The Sexual Pleaser
Outside the bedroom: The Sexual Pleaser is usually sweet, cheerful, enthusiastic and nice to everyone. They have a tendency to confuse love with pity, and a tendency to “love” people they can pity and rescue. They are overly dependent on the approval of members of their family, spouse, friends, colleagues and even strangers. They will go to any lengths and overboard to please and when they do they will stand there silently with a “so?” look on their face. They can easily be manipulated because Sexual Pleasers have a hard time saying “no’ to requests outside and inside of the bedroom.
Inside the bedroom: When you have sex with a Sexual Pleaser, you will feel wonderful – at first – because they come across as the super lover. They ask “Do you like this or Am I pleasing you?” They even go to the lengths of apologizing if you say you did not like that. After a while you start feeling selfish and guilty. You sense their desperation and need to please and feel obligated to him/her but at the same time feel controlled by their neediness.
9. The Sexual Corpse
Outside the bedroom: The Sexual Corpse is an expert at repressing his/her feelings. They appear cool, calm and collected on the outside but deep inside they are anxious, worried, and fearful. Many have suffered a lot of hurt, pain, frustration and have been abused as children or by their sexual partners. They often find it difficult to trust others and to self-disclose. They don’t easily forgive and never forget. Even if they openly don’t say it you get the feeling talking to them that they are so angry at the opposite sex.
Inside the bedroom: When you have sex with a Sexual Corpse, their idea of sex is you playing “sex psychic”. They never show emotion or say a word before, during or after sex. Its up to you to guess how they are feeling or if they like sex with you. Its up to you to figure out what they want – or if they even like you. If you ask them if they like something the best they can come up with is ‘Its fine”. You are left inadequate, frustrated and even angry at them.
10. The Sexual Tease
Outside the bedroom: The Sexual Tease is the kind of man or woman who looks at your partner and makes them wish they were single. They just love to advertise how “super-sexy” they – they dress and walk the part. Their whole idea of life is superficiality – clothes, status etc., and have a habit of name-dropping or mentioning their connections to famous, rich and powerful people. They are very competitive with members of the same sex and are usually very jealous and possessive people. The Sexual Tease also has problems opening up and making commitments to another person.
Inside the bedroom: Forget the bedroom – a Sexual Tease comes on very strong and aggressive, turning you on and driving you crazy with his/her act. But as soon as there is a possibility that sex might actually take place, the sexy, hot and wild image disappears. They start giving excuses or find something else to do – so that they can tease you some more. And if you actually manage to have sex with this character – you will be very disappointed. A Sexual Tease is turned on by the idea of being wild and sexy but not by the actual act of sex itself. You find yourself feeling humiliated, used, manipulated and angry.
Conclusion: I believe that there is no “right” or “wrong” way of making love. Sex is “good” when it makes both of your feel good about yourselves and about the relationship and it is ‘bad” when it leaves you unhappy and adds to your negative feelings about yourself, your partner or about relationships. The good news is that there is something you can always do to become the lover you are capable of being (listed on my website are some of the things you can immediately do). The Super Lover is in everyone of us. What you need first and foremost is deep insights into the unique, creative and ultimately mysterious being you are. Second you need an intuitive understanding of the intricate dynamics of man-woman energies. Learning specific techniques is NOT enough, you need to know the interplay between the sexes that is sufficient to evoke a deep connection and smoldering passion.